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It is always the connotation of people that when you smile... everything's fine. People would always like to believe that everything would work out and they base it on logical explanations and equations. But the truth is they miss out on one important detail... no not miss... but too blind to see that in the first place, Its illogical to say that when you smile everything would be

fine and back it up with pure logic.

It would be a little more plausible if we say that we have forgiven ourselves. Dont get me wrong. Some can smile and still hide the truth. That they love to be with their friends but cannot face the truth that they can't seem to pick up the pieces and/or they ignore that the adversity has changed their whole being. And its harder if you're in this situatioin because you have to find a way to correct it. And more often than not, people just let it be. Not knowing that the outcome of not doing anything would reflect on their miserable lives. It may seem harsh to say miserable but you we also have to look at an angle that these people would have had the time of their lives only if they had the guts.

And another thing is that people are, sad to say, are very proud. Too proud to admit that what they have done was against their values and beliefs. This is the main obstacle that we should hurdle. But we could go on and on. And still have a vague solution to the problem. So I'll let you be the one to think. Hey! God gave us a brain... so its ok to use it once in a while.

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It has been a while when I last wrote something. I do not know why but maybe because there is nothing to write or say anything at all. So Hence, there were no ideas to be translated into words. No opinions to be debated. And no beliefs to be questioned. But when I was reading an article I found in the internet. I saw a line there that was rather intriguing. "When does one need space and privacy?".

It has always been the concept of having time for yourself and think about things. That is, if we look at it and find ourselves being drowned by our own selfishness. But if we, on the other hand, look at it on a different perspective. Meaning it is not ourselves who must find the right reasons to have space and privacy. In simple English, When do we give others their space and privacy?

I have always been trying to understand people's feelings, their personality and what they dont know about themselves. And when I came across this question, I found myself thinking. When do we give others the privacy they so desperately need? Where do we draw the line of being there for them and leaving them alone?

It is not when we give it to them. It is not where we draw the line. But it is how we let them feel that we respect their decisions and at the same time we will never abandon them. In this sense, we not only give ourselves a break but letting them feel the the pain for them to grow